
Why am I Angry?
Anger is a normal human emotion that can cause problems in our life. Feelings of anger can range depending on the person feeling it, the
In a previous blog post, I discussed the differences between healthy and unhealthy coping skills. One type of healthy coping skill is the use of Grounding. Grounding is a type of coping skill designed to turn your attention away from your thoughts, memories, and worries and instead “ground” yourself to the present moment by refocusing your thoughts. Grounding is helpful in coping with anxiety, trauma, dissociation, self-harm, suicidal urges, substance cravings, panic, anger, and more. Grounding techniques can be both physical and mental, allowing you to practice them anywhere.
Physical grounding techniques can help bring you into the present by directing your focus to sensations in the body. Some physical grounding techniques are:
Mental techniques can help redirect your thoughts away from distressing feelings and back to the present. Mental grounding techniques include:
Remember, grounding can help you cope with feelings of distress, but does not address what is causing your distress. For additional support contact a family member, a friend, or a professional. Grounding techniques are not always easy, but they can help once you find the ones that work best for you.
Keli Hinkemeyer earned her Master of Science degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from St. Cloud State University, MN after completing her Bachelor of Science degree in Chemical Dependency and Community Psychology from St. Cloud State University, MN. She has a history of working with individuals who have spent time in the criminal justice system and are on parole. She has worked with individuals who have had an alcohol, substance, and behavioral addiction.
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